Critic’s Pick: LGBTQ-Inclusive Language

After thinking about what consent means for people with disabilities, I want to explore other often marginalized identities and discuss how campus sexual assault policies use (or don’t use) lesbian, gay, bisexual, queer transgender and gender non-conforming inclusive language.

Let’s begin with some unfortunate news: I’ve searched a heck of a lot of these policies, and I have only found ONE that explicitly mentions LGBTQ people. Recently reviewing a student submission, I came across this statement in University of Akron’s policy:

Sexual misconduct and sexual assault is a serious crime that can affect men and women, whether gay, straight, transgender or bisexual.

This is good—a policy needs to be explicitly inclusive of different communities of people. University of Akron does not simply say something vague about “all members of the community” or exclude (like many other schools!) huge populations of students by only using “man” and “woman.” Where I could see Akron’s statement improving is in addressing gender non-conforming, or genderqueer, individuals. To specify, gender non-conforming refers to people who do not follow societal norms, such as dress and activities, based on their biological sex. Gender non-conforming people may present themselves as gender-free rather than clearly male or female; they may identify as transgender, gay, lesbian, bisexual or none of the above. A more inclusive alternative to Akron’s policy might be: “Sexual misconduct and sexual assault is a serious crime that can affect any individual, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity. It can affect men, women, or gender non-conforming/genderqueer people, whether gay, straight, transgender, or bisexual.” While the wording is only slightly altered, it would have huge implications for many students. The unfortunate reality, however, is that Akron is still miles ahead of other schools in this regard—they may not offer the most inclusive language, but they are the only institution I found that mentioned the LGBTQ community at all.

When a school’s sexual assault policy does not even consider certain populations of students, what does that mean for those students who consider themselves part of these populations?

In general, sexual assault is hard to talk about. It’s already the kind of thing that makes people uncomfortable, that people want to keep quiet. Sexual assault within the LGBTQ community has received so little attention even from those whose job it is to discuss it: researchers, support services and the criminal justice system. The discourse around sexual violence is often so focused on heterosexual men and women that any person not in those categories may feel marginalized and ignored. It’s hard to wrap your head around the idea of a woman assaulting another woman or a man assaulting another man when no one ever brings it up—but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen. LGBTQ survivors of assault have the same basic needs as heterosexual survivors of assault, but this lack of attention serves to keep this topic even further under wraps, resulting in a lack of culturally competent support and very few resources for healing. Queer survivors have an equal right to be believed, validated, and supported to reach recovery and justice.

We live in a society with so many levels of internalized and externalized homophobia and part of understanding and changing violent behavior is acknowledging and challenging that homophobia. Although violence does exist within LGBTQ communities, their sexual orientations and gender identities are not the cause of that violence. Like all forms of sexual violence, assault within the LGBTQ community is used to assert power and maintain the status quo (specifically here, heterosexism).

There are several unique needs and problems that arise in the LGBTQ population when it comes to reporting sexual assaults. Just to name a few: fear of prejudice and victim-blaming because of societal homophobia and bias, fear of being forced to reveal their sexual orientation, fear of betraying the LGBTQ community if the perpetrator is also LGBTQ, and fear of having the experience minimized or sensationalized.

Looking at the wide range of campus sexual assault policies out there, it is shocking how few schools make explicit mention of the LGBTQ community. Even the most liberal campuses well known for having large LGBTQ populations don’t seem to directly address the issue. For all the reasons I mentioned above, it is not enough to simply use gender-neutral language.

Many schools, like College of the Holy Cross and Carleton College, limit the identities in their policies to “man” or “woman.” Although this wording recognizes same-sex assault (“by a man or woman upon a man or woman”), it does not acknowledge any gender identity outside of those norms.

Some campuses, like Macalester College and the University of Vermont, work to be inclusive of all identities in general, but do not name the LGBTQ community specifically. Tufts University provides a good example of this middle ground. Listed under the Survivor’s Rights, it says:

We will treat your case seriously regardless of your or any suspect’s sex, gender identity and expression, sexual orientation and behavior, race, ethnicity, religion, national origin, age, disability, or veteran status.

This isn’t terrible; it acknowledges the diversity of survivors of sexual assault and ensures that a case will not be unfairly minimized. However, there is something powerful about naming LGBTQ students as survivors. Especially on college campuses, LGBTQ people are often disproportionately assaulted, and therefore merit explicit acknowledgment. A study done by the Wisconsin Coalition Against Sexual Assault shows that from a sample of 412 university students, 16.9% of the subjects reported that they were lesbian, gay, or bisexual; the remainder identified themselves as heterosexual. 42.4% of the lesbian, gay, and bisexual subjects and 21.4% of the heterosexuals indicated they had been forced to have sex against their will. With this in mind, when policies explicitly include the LGBTQ community, it is validating and supportive in an active way that encourages individuals to come forward.

The majority of policies that I’ve seen fall under this last category, and while maybe it’s not the worst, there’s no good excuse for not being more explicit. The problem does not seem to be that schools are not aware of sexual violence against the LGBTQ community. In fact, many schools have fact sheets and other information about this very topic posted online to help. Check out these great resources from Illinois State University, Lewis and Clark, Harvard University, George Washington University,University of Minnesota, and University of California, Berkeley. The Office of Sexual Assault Prevention (OSAP) at Evergreen State College even states:

OSAP is committed to being a culturally competent, Queer-positive, Transgender-positive space and provides services sensitive to the unique needs of all students, staff and faculty, particularly those whom are members of groups disproportionately affected by sexual violence. OSAP collaborates with community agencies, First People’s Advising and student activities groups to provide advocacy and services relevant to each individual.

Not one of the schools listed above includes anything about LGBTQ students in its policy, however. It’s baffling that the great resources and knowledge that schools possess don’t translate into inclusive policies. The majority of policies that I’ve seen fall into the same category as Tufts with regards to inclusiveness, and while maybe it’s not the worst, there’s no excuse for not being more explicit. One or two sentences in a policy could make all the difference for many students.

Early March Campus News Round-Up

It’s been a while since I did a proper one of these. Here’s what’s going on:

The De Anza civil trial is underway, and one of the three girls who intervened that night has given her extremely disturbing (graphic and triggering) testimony of what she saw. For background on the De Anza case, check out some of our older posts on it.

CUNY’s sexual assault policy is featured in this article about dating violence on college campuses.

A campus rape survivor in Kentucky is advocating for “extending protective order laws” to include people in “dating relationships.” I can’t really believe that isn’t already the law. Apparently in Kentucky only married folks have abusive partners? What? 44 other states (plus DC) already cover the rights of those experiencing dating violence, so let’s hope Kentucky follows suit.

Students at Dickinson College were out protesting yesterday, calling for a more comprehensive response to sexual assault on campus. Meanwhile, a student at the University of Oklahoma wrote a great editorial on why the school’s policy, including it’s 30-day statute of limitations (!!!) needs to be changed.

Students at Colorado State University are actually debating whether or not to raise student activities fees by three or four dollars to support the work of the Women and Gender Advocacy Center.

Nortre Dame is being accused of not properly responding to a rape case AGAIN. Meanwhile, Nortre Dame’s sexual assault awareness week seems to be focused on alcohol instead of how to be accountable to student safety.

The University of Minnesota, which you may remember has been dealing with a number of reported sexual assaults this year, is requesting that greek community members attend this April’s “presentation on preventing sexual violence.” However, the school says that they can’t mandate anyone to attend. Which…I don’t think I buy.The piece goes on to describe the “self-governance” granted to greek life on most campuses and leaves me pretty unsettled, including a reference to greek judiciary processes. Anyone know more about how this works? I’m going to look into it.

Wednesday Links: Student Perceptions of Rape; Awesome Consumer Activism

Like many of you, I have been bogged down with finals for the past week. But as I’m finishing up (Tonight! Finally!) I wanted to highlight a few stories that I found today.

Amanda Hess has great coverage over at TBD of a new report from the George Washington University School of Medicine and the Younger Women’s Task Force, “Understanding Sexual Violence at a Large, Urban University.” The report explores findings from surveys of 5000 GWU students, surveys that asked not only about students’ experiences with sexual violence but also about their knowledge of GWU’s resources and procedures I recommend checking out Amanda’s analysis of the report (which has an interesting gender breakdown) and the report itself. A notable selection from its conclusion:

After our investigation, we believe there needs to be more sexual assault education and prevention efforts at GWU. According to our data collection, 89 percent of respondents believe victims can obtain a rape kit at GWU Hospital and 69 percent of students believe victims of sexual assault can obtain a rape kit at Student Health Services. This indicates GWU has not done an adequate job of educating students on what to do if one of their students experience sexual assault. Further, the fact that 61 percent of respondents  believe sexual assault is a problem on campus, while 15 percent stated they know someone who has experienced a rape, leads us to believe sexual assault at GWU is an underreported and silent problem.

This report makes the think of the similar report from SUNY Geneseo on rates of sexual violence among current students. I wonder if the key to getting people to take campus sexual violence seriously is surveys like these that really underscore the problem on a micro level, showing that hundreds of students on individual campuses are really are experiencing sexual violence. Maybe those numbers would be more meaningful to folks than the national statistics.

I smiled today (oh god, this might have been the only time I smiled today…finals and #Mooreandme made it a tough one) at this story on the Ms. Blog about students at California State University, Long Beach writing letters of protest to a local clothing store. With the help of the amazing Shira Tarrant, students voiced their concern over shirts depicting a drawing of a topless (looking) girl who has tape over her mouth with the caption “enjoy the silence.” While Caroline at Ms. makes the connection between the image and the idea of women being “seen and not heard,” I would add that it’s even worse when you consider the word “silence” in the context of sexual violence and the lack of reporting. So, we applaud the students at CSULB for NOT staying silent.

Although the Notre Dame football player accused of raping Lizzy Seeberg, will not be charged, the Department of Education is investigating how the school handled the case.If you didn’t come across this powerful piece about Lizzy’s case and suicide written by a special victims unit prosecutor, please check it out.

Finally, I leave you with this awesome student at the University of Minnesota who is totally spot on.

Pre-Thanksgiving Linkstravaganza

So, the blog will be quiet over the next few days while we take some time off for the holiday, but I will leave you with some reading material! Also, if you’re in NYC and want to come hang out and help us out for a couple hour on Monday night, RSVP for the “work party” at our office! And of course, if you really want to get to know SAFER, consider applying for our Board….

Where Is Your Line has a hard-to-read (triggering!) but very striking story about frat culture (or at least one particular frat culture) and sexual violence. Written by a frat member, in fact.

A lot of people have written about the St. Mary’s College student who killed herself shortly after accusing a Notre Dame football player of sexual assault (see Jezebel and Care2 for more). An insanely sad story. Also sad is that no one at Notre Dame or St Mary’s seems to be talking about rape.

Feminist Students United! at the University of North Carolina Chapel Hill call out a gross sign put up by the hockey team as being representative of rape culture and fight back with their own awesome sign. Unsurprisingly, the commenters on their blog just think they don’t have any sense of humor. We haven’t heard that before…

The awesome folks at Prevention Innovations tackle the serious issue of how behavior that could be considered stalking can become normalized on college campuses, particularly cyberstalking.

A University of Minnesota Student is waging a one-woman fight to get her community to take groping seriously and improve the reporting process at the U of M.

Guess what? Schools have inaccurate Clery statistics!

The Loyola Maroon addresses the victim-blaming comments (online, of course) on their story about a student arrested for rape.

Finally, a lot of folks are talking about this week’s Law and Order SVU episode, which apparently dealt with campus rape! I haven’t gotten a chance to catch up with it yet. Anyone else see it? Thoughts??

Campus News Catch-Up

I’ve been a bit behind the ball on my news round-ups, so there’s a lot to catch up on…

Let’s start off with the good stuff! The students who worked so hard to get a sexual assault policy for the City University of New York system are getting some recognition from the administration. Students for a Greater CUNY recently updated their CUNY Policy Tracker, which was an amazing tool while they ran their campaign. Students currently working on policy change should check it out.

So proud of students at SUNY Geneseo who have, with their staff and admin allies, scheduled a campus-wide sexual assault teach-in in March. How awesome does this sound!?: “The SAT will address both truths and widespread misperceptions about campus sexual assault. Most importantly, the SAT will promote informed and constructive discussions among faculty, staff, and students that may inspire and inform new programs, policies, and procedures and empower participants to help solve this problem in our community.” We did a training at Geneseo last spring, and it’s really excited to see them moving forward.

There’s a great article in the Skidmore News about the school’s revised sexual assault policy, which goes into effect this month.  This article makes it sound like a lot of amazing improvements were made. And it’s great to read that students were very involved in the entire process.

Wesleyan has created a really excited new position on campus, the Sexual Assault Response Team (SART) intern. The SART intern is a student role, and is a “liaison between the administration and students who wish to report sexual assault.” The intern is a completely confidential resource for students—survivors and perpetrators.

Students at Dartmouth are brainstorming about what role the administration should play in combating sexual assault.

I really want to hear the sexual assault presentation given at Texas Tech University—it’s in talk show format, and the counselor who created it, Erin Snyder, sounds pretty great. Case in point: “I think sexual assault is a problem on every college campus…What I do is try to prevent it by giving students information on what is healthy in a sexual relationship.”

On to the (really) bad stuff.  A lot of press space has been given to the terrifying story of a Central Washington University house party that sent 12 students (11 female, one male) to the hospital and left others ill. Students at the party told police and reporters that they thought “roofies” were responsible, either put into a bottle of vodka that was made to make mixed drinks, or put into pre-made party drinks. The police were called by students who had left the party, after their friend was extremely sick. The Police Chief noted that when the police arrived at the house, there were sick students everywhere and no one at the house had decided to call the police. It’s worth mentioning I think that CWU’s sexual assault policy does not have an explicit amnesty policy stating that students who report assaults won’t be penalized for something like underage drinking. This is a good example of why it’s important for students to know they have that protection.

Amanda Hess wrote a really good piece on the 11 DAYS is took the University of Virginia to alert students to the sexual assault of a student who was attacked while walking home.  UVA should really know now about the importance of timely intervention. This isn’t acceptable.

Apparently the University of Illinois still hands out rape whistles.

Ms. Blog and Shakesville have both covered the distressing case of the Michigan State University basketball players who were accused of rape but are not being charged with rape, despite the fact that one of them admitted to investigators that the victim didn’t want to have sex. In response, a number of students have formed a Coalition Against Sexual Violence on campus.

Finally, last week I wrote about how within three weeks at the University of Minnesota three women reported assaults at three different frat parties. The school frats responded by banning alcohol at frat parties for the immediate future. Since then, the school paper has been the site of some interesting discussion, about a poor editorial choice in publishing a cartoon about the assaults and the need to fight the real causes of sexual violence.

3 Sexual Assaults. 3 Weeks. 3 Fraternities. Same School.

Even with the massive amount of campus sexual violence-related content I process every week, I still occasionally see a headline that just totally shocks me. Like today’s “3rd Sexual Assault in 3 Weeks at U of M Fraternity.” Yes, that’s right: over the past three weeks, one student reported an attempted rape, and two students reported sexual assaults, all at different University of Minnesota frats. Those are some staggering numbers, right???

So far, the campus response has been to ban alcohol from fraternity parties indefinitely. Apparently “alcohol was a factor” in each assault, which I am assuming just means that the alleged assailants and/or the victims (or some combo of the two) were drinking. While normally I would make a big fuss about how alcohol doesn’t cause sexual assault (assailants do), the decision was made by the fraternity leaders themselves and not imposed by the administration. I think that illustrates a really impressive commitment on the part of the students to take some time and reflect on what’s going on. In fact, it was a unanimous vote. Until further notice, frat members who are over 21 can drink in their house, but no alcohol is to be consumed if guests are present. Anyone who has ever been on a college campus with Greek life (or seen a movie about one) knows what a big deal that is.

The idea is that the ban will give “Greek and University leaders time to re-evaluate policies and procedures.” I hope part of that includes putting some resources into some primary prevention education, and not just holding some lectures about how alcohol “raises the risk” of rape. There is definitely potential for something positive here, amidst such a horrifying series of incidents.

I’m not really encouraged, though, by the dialogue coming out of the U of M right now. Jezebel pointed out this report from Fox news about the first two assaults, which is largely focused on female college students talking about how the incidents reaffirm the need for women to be “responsible.” Of course, this could be the Fox frame of the story too. But Jezebel also reported this weekend on a really unfortunate messaging campaign currently underway at the U of M related to alcohol. Especially frustrating is the poster that depicts a woman in the process of taking her shirt off in front of a group of guys, with the caption, “Reputations aren’t drunk-proof.” The “slut-shaming” here is pretty clear-cut. So I dunno. I’ll be watching the news for signs of change at U of M, and I’m trying to be hopeful. If you can get an Inter-Fraternity Council to effectively call an end to frat parties, then perhaps anything is possible.

Online petitions for policy change

Here are some examples of student petitions addressing sexual assault that I’ve heard of recently:

At the University of Minnesota, asking for a policy of no or neutral comments to the media from the university and its staff in cases of alleged sexual assault by students:

http://www.petitiononline.com/2endrape/petition.html

At City College in New York, asking for reinstitution of door-to-door escort service:

http://www.petitiononline.com/PFSACCNY/

Petitions are a great way to garner and demonstrate support. Remember, always address your petition to the individual(s) who can actually enact the change you’re demanding.