As some you may have read in my first blog post with SAFER, I was a volunteer advocate for the rape crisis center on my alma mater’s campus. As a result, I attended many guest speakers and events that the center put on. For many events, the Greek life student body was mandated to attended — by the Greek life President, not by our organization. However, students who were members of a fraternity or sorority did not acknowledge that we were not mandating them and therefore categorized us as “men haters” and “Greek life blamers.” Going forward, it was difficult to defend the rape crisis center’s mission and stance on perpetrators of sexual assault. We lost our legitimacy among the Greek life population very quickly. These circumstances emphasized that blaming all men for sexual assault is a failure to the anti-sexual violence movement. All men are not rapists. All fraternity brothers are not rapists. Men are crucial students to mobilize in the fight against sexual violence on college campuses.
This is why I was so impressed and pleased to read about Greek life at Tufts University. The ATO president, Matthew Sanda, acknowledged that fraternity houses have a stigma against them as locations where sexual assaults often occur. Instead of becoming defensive by this claim, the fraternities and sororities at Tufts University accepted that the rates of sexual assault in Greek houses are hard to dispute. As a result, they took a stand against sexual violence. The fraternities and sororities started a poster series that said “Not in our house.” Additionally, ATO has indicated philanthropic projects done by the Boston Area Rape Crisis Center. They have established this partnership in order to further reduce the stigma associated with Greek houses. Sororities have also played an important role. Chi Omega partnered with Panhellenic Council to sponsor Take Back the Night, a vigil that is intended to empower and support survivors to come forward and tell their story. Students take back the night of their assault and are given their voice, confidence, and power back.
It is so important that fraternity brothers and sorority sisters become the face of allies combating sexual violence. The Greek life community is tight-knit and friendships are formed across memberships. If individual fraternities and sororities are signing up to be allies, they are more likely to hold their fellow Greek life members accountable if and when sexual assaults do occur within Greek housing or perpetrated by a fraternity brother or sorority sister — YES, women can be perpetrators, too! Having the Greek life community discussing topics of sexual violence is just another avenue for education and awareness raising for college campuses. Kudos to you, Tufts!